Ok, so I got the metaphor to end all metahphors, right here. Well not really, but I'm pretty proud of it so don't knock me for it, at least not till you hear me out. First, we have life, the experience. Vague I know, but intentionally so. Second, the metaphorical part. Life is like unleashing the power of a super bouncy ball inside a small confined space. There, I said it. Track with me, let's see where this goes, I'm curious myself.
So, first off, that would be a pretty cool thing to see, take a glass box and just launch in a super ball and watch it go. You have no way of knowing what is going to happen. You can guide it at the beginning, we can choose the angle and speed at which said ball enters the box, but once it is in there, we can do nothing but sit back and watch. If we were to try to interfere, for the most part we would only make things worse. I feel that the entrance in is really like childhood in our lives. We are shaped by our surroundings, guided by our parents, preparing for our entrance into the world outside, or in this case, inside. Once our parents release us, it is up to us to make the best of our situation and do what we can with what we are given.
Once inside, especially if this super ball entered at high speed, things are going to be spectacular. Rebounding constantly at high speed, there is no way of possibly knowing what is going to happen next. We try to trace the movements of the ball, seeing where it was and where it is going, but it can be hard. In the early stages of life, we all tend to move around a lot, figuring things out for ourselves. We want to constantly try something new, if this does not work, how about that, and so forth, just constantly bouncing around, experiencing everything we can.
Also, you can try to predict the path of the ball. You look at it, try to judge the speed and angles etc, hoping to understand the rebound and what will happen next. The thing is, even if you could predict the next rebound or two even, after that, you are out of luck, and even those two would be hard to see coming. It is the same in life. As humans, we change constantly. We do not even know where we ourselves are going to end up next, and to try and predict us from an outside perspective, tis nigh impossible. We might look ahead in our lives, during high school for instance, and see that we are going to graduate and then go to college, but from there do we really know what is next? I know that I don't, not for myself. I expect to be shaped by coming experiences, in ways I cannot predict, and that I will push off of those experiences into new things I cannot even fathom at this moment.
Finally, things eventually come to an end. The ball slows down, becomes more predictable, eventually just rolling to a stop in a corner of the box. The same can be said, to some extent, for us as humans. We bounce around so quickly early on, but eventually we settle into the pace of life, to the point that we can see our own inevitable future. While it is unavoidable, it is also not some terrible fate either. That ball may have come to a stop, but one shake of the box and there is a whole new adventure on the move again. It comes down to the same for us. We eventually come to the end of our crazy and rambunctious lives, but that is only the beginning of the next adventure. So yeah, life, it is totally like a box...with a bouncy ball inside...
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At first I questioned your metaphor and was perplexed as to how it made sense. After reading your blog though, I feel that this metaphor may be one of the best I have ever heard about life. You explained very well how you can give the ball guidance where to go when it enters the box and control the speed which is like giving child guidance, but there is only so much you can give a child and so much you can do for them until they stop listening to you. I feel that life is like a bouncy ball going every which way, yet I feel like in a sort of way we have complete control over our own lives. We decide which road we take, we decide who we are going to be. altough, there are alot of holes in the road along the way, and we never know what life is going to throw in our direction. It is hard to be sure what exactly is going to happen, you can have a plan and spend your whole life trying to obtain that one goal and never do so. So how many time should one try before they give up completely? Find another goal they would like to set out for? Because, in life we never know what could happen, and what might of been if we had done things differently, which brings me back to the ball, if it was thrown a bit softer or harder what difference would it have made, and if it would hae been shaken a few times, what effects would it of had on that ball in that tiny little box??
ReplyDeleteI really like your metaphor here! I can definitely see what you mean, and I think anyone reading this will agree that as they read this, they can in a way track their lives as you describe this bouncy ball in the box. I know personally, I can think of many times in my life where my metaphorical box has been shaken and new experiences have arrived in my life. It also made me think: how many times can we really shake this box back up to get the ball going again? When, if it’s possible at all, do we decide to shake that box again and get going again? And is there a point in time where we shake this box too much and it’s completely out of our control? Or do we ever control how often the box shakes? Goodness, this one really made me think! lol But as you said, there really is no real way to tell here. Life is so unpredictable and who knows, maybe the bouncy ball could break out of this box and cause more chaos with this new experience. This makes this metaphor and the meaning behind it that much more exciting. I really liked your metaphor, great job!
ReplyDeleteThat was hilarious Bryce. Yet it made a lot of sense. I'm actually curious as to how you came up with that metaphor. I think that it worked perfectly, and you did a great job explaining how it did so. I like how you compared going in the box with being born and raised. You said it well when you said we have no control over most things, just as we have no control with what the ball is going to do. There isn't much that we could do once we enter life to change the direction we are headed (on a higher level). Yea, of course you could go to school and blah blah blah, but to me, everything I do has been planned by one man. Even if no one believes in God, I still don't think that most people believe that things happen for no reason. That is where the metaphor really works. The ball is going to go places that are set by gravity and motion. If we really wanted to we could reenact the motions of the ball on a computer program. We could tell where the ball is going to go and everything. We just need to know where the ball will be bouncing off the wall, and at what rate it is hitting the wall. This is how God is in my eyes-all knowing. I believe that this metaphor worked great.
ReplyDeleteYour blog had me laughing (in a good way) I can imagine someone actually explaining this to me! You did such a good job at describing it so that I could have a clear picture in my mind about what you were talking about. At first I was some what hesitant because I really did not understand what it was you were talking about. However, very very very good metaphor. I have never heard one even close to it before. This metaphor can very well be my life right now. I feel like everything is very uncertain, I have so many choices and I still do not know what I want to do with them. I wish I knew but it is all so unpredictable, life that is. The way you described the nature and nurture of parents and correlated it to the beginning of the ball being thrown, it parallel so well! The same goes for how unpredictable the bounces, heights, force and turns of life is going to be. The clear box could also be an example of how our every move is being watched by people outside of our lives. Nothing we ever do is ever really left uncovered. This was a very good metaphor and I enjoyed reading your blog very much.
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